Mens Issues

By Renee Pullman Do you remember that old Neil Diamond/Barbara Streisand love song, “You Don’t Send Me Flowers Anymore?” It is all about a love relationship that wasn’t maintained. It is a common pattern with couples and so their love ebbs and flows until one day, it is just gone. The relationship at this point [...]

By Renee Pullman Divorce for men can be all uphill. If you are involved in divorce the feelings that come out from this can be so intense that you may feel like you are about to be emasculated. At that time, many men lash out in anger – they have a testosterone moment and divorce [...]

By Renee Pullman The deck is stacked against men in divorce court. Just last week an acquittance was shutdown by the judge and not fully allowed to tell his story. He had gotten angry, did something stupid, and now his battle is even more uphill. In dissolving a marriage, emotions are all wrapped around your [...]

By Renee Pullman Maybe you didn’t see this coming, maybe you felt blindsided when your wife filed for divorce. None of that matters right now. What matters right now is getting a good plan going to deal with it. Divorce for men is not the level playing field that you might suppose, there is a [...]

Your wife has filed for divorce (women do this 2 to 1 over men). Now she seems to want everything that matters to you and a huge chunk of everything you might earn in the future. This is where a lot of men get upset and afraid.

If you want to recover from a break up, if your relationship has ended for whatever reason and you want to get back on your feet then you are already half way there. Many wallow in sorrow after a breakup and fail to move forward until something happens outside of them. You are halfway there because you are ready to take charge and get yourself together.

Divorce for men is not always a fair process, women have an advantage in divorce court and you have to deal with it. OK, say that you’ve found a divorce lawyer and he’s telling you what is best, he’s telling you what to do. Wouldn’t it be better if you understood the divorce process and could contribute to it?

Divorce for men can be a challenge but it is one that you can rise to. How often have your heard the familiar story, “she took the kids, the house, and the car.” Then the story continues with the support horror story and how she holds you hostage over the kids vitiation.

For most men in divorce — divorce is a maze of heartbreak and betrayal. Most men married never expecting to divorce. Some men earn their divorce papers by being abusive, regular cheating, drugging, boozing, and possibly a few other reasons where the wife is right to get rid of them. But for the rest of the men, for most men, men who are tied up in divorce, perhaps you spent too much time on work, or traveling for other job, and your wife didn’t appreciate what you were trying to do, so she gets the idea that you don’t love her and files for divorce.

By Renee Pullman Men are at a disadvantage in divorce court. The disadvantage is cultural on one side, but on the other, women file for divorce twice as often as men. Women take the initiative and that is important, her divorce lawyer wants to keep you off balance and so under control. As in a [...]